As my regular readers know, I am an Amish-Mennonite. A question many people have asked in the aftermath of the shootings at the Nickel Mines Amish School is, “How can the Amish forgive the man that terrorized and then killed their young daughters?” The answer is a simple one. Some may dismiss the answer as trite, but such a view is belied by the emotional trauma and pain that these people had to overcome to forgive.
The Bible tells followers of Jesus Christ to “live in love as Christ also loved us. He gave his life for us as an offering and sacrifice.” It goes on to explain how complete that love is supposed to be, even in offering our lives in death: “This is how we know what love is: Christ gave his life for us. We too, then, ought to give our lives for others!” After all that Christ did for us so that we could be saved from an endless, depressing cycle of sin, the least we can do is to offer our lives in order that others can discover this freedom from sin as well! Like this man who was loved by the Amish even though he was their enemy, Christ loved us while we were still His enemies.
Jesus told us “if you don’t forgive others, your Father [God] will not forgive your sins.” It would seem obvious that such forgiveness, in the case of such an atrocity, can only spring from Jesus’ power given to us to live above sin. Such forgiveness is not a natural human attribute. The amazing thing that I have found about forgiveness in my own life is that the greatest beneficent is me! Forgiveness lifts such a burden from my shoulders! My life is so much more pleasant when I simply surrender what I want to do, and do what God wants me to do–love my enemies and forgive.
Jesus said, “Everyone will know that you are my disciples [followers and imitators] because of your love for each other.” What will you do in the face of Jesus’ love being shown to you in a real way by some of his followers? The Amish of Nickel Mines are displaying a small sliver of the love that Christ has for you. Jesus was willing to give his life in a way far more brutal than the Nickel Mines shootings; He did this to offer you the chance to escape the emptiness, the destructive cycle of sin, and your fair punishment for what you have done (if you think you are a good person, take this test).
So we see the answer to the question, “How can the Amish forgive the man that terrorized and then killed their young daughters?”, is because Jesus loved them (and you and I) so much, and transformed their lives so thoroughly, that they were willing to forgive, no matter the awfulness of the crime committed against them.
If you want to learn more or have any questions, please feel free to leave a comment or drop me an email.
Bible References: Ephesians 5:2 (GW), 1 John 3:16 (GNB), Matthew 6:17 (CEV), John 13:35 (GW)